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Fifth Column 10:51 Mon Jan 9
Divorce, custody and housing... question...
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Having done a lot of reading around this, I believe that if you own a house jointly then neither party in a divorce can be forced to leave by the other.
Has anyone actually done this i.e. got divorced and stayed in same house at least in short term? And what was effect on the kids?
Is the idea of doing this living in cloud cuckoo land (there is no third party involved so not THAT nasty situation, at least not yet)?
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Spandex Sidney
10:57 Mon Jan 9
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I's unlikely the house will have to be sold unless you both agree. However the idea you can both live there is very unrealistic.
Soon enough you will move on with other birds and enjoying life with your mates or will be baby sitting while she brings back uni students and have to listen to her being banged between lectures.
The best advice I could give you is try not to get lawyers involved as they will take all your money and living together beyond the short term is really a non starter, even if it doesn't seem like it now.
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Fifth Column
11:02 Mon Jan 9
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Good luck to the students.
I didn't mean living together long term but most people I speak to have just moved out even before they've even started divorce process.
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penners28
11:13 Mon Jan 9
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i wouldnt move out. ive always told my mrs if we broke up she can fuck off if she wants, im staying in the house with the kids. i earn much more so can pay the mortgage and she cant.
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Nurse Ratched
11:17 Mon Jan 9
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Don't get married again, Fiff.
All women, without exception, are greedy, grubbing gold-diggers.
Snakes with tits
Just exploit a long line of women, sexually.
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Fifth Column
11:19 Mon Jan 9
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Nurse is that you forecasting any further responses from anyone else?
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Nurse Ratched
11:19 Mon Jan 9
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Er, yes.
Yes.
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Sven Roeder
11:20 Mon Jan 9
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I am guessing if you move out the house will always go to the wife FOR THE GOOD OF THE KIDS.
Staying put is probably the only chance of any 'equal' settlement that doesn't involve you living in a shoebox somewhere.
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Nurse Ratched
11:20 Mon Jan 9
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On the (very) bright side, my love, you can ditch all that muslim malarkey now. :-)
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madeeasy
11:21 Mon Jan 9
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Nurse Ratched 11:17 Mon Jan 9
EOT
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Dwight Van Mann
11:34 Mon Jan 9
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Ever see the episode of Steptoe and Son where they divided the house in half?
Could be a compromise.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8a40OZtH0M
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Northern Sold
11:36 Mon Jan 9
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Is divorce even allowed in Islam ?
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Fifth Column
11:36 Mon Jan 9
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Yup
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Fifth Column
11:37 Mon Jan 9
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Always has been, ahead of its time you see
;-)
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Sven Roeder
11:38 Mon Jan 9
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Cant you just demote them down the wife batting order and move them out into the shed?
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Fifth Column
11:38 Mon Jan 9
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She's already in the shed... that's why we're getting divorced.
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Northern Sold
11:39 Mon Jan 9
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What even if the woman wants one??
My sister (the UNIslamic one) and her boyfriend split up... they had been together 10 years or so and had a couple of kids so no divorce as such... he gave her £70,000 as her share of the house (where he still lives)
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Fifth Column
11:43 Mon Jan 9
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Yes even if the woman wants one... that's IN PRINCIPLE. Having said this, it becomes massively difficult in practice because more Muslim countries are so patriachal.
Do you reckon if I gave my Mrs £70K equity in cash she'd just leave... thinking aloud... hmmm
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Sven Roeder
11:43 Mon Jan 9
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What is the land under the shed like?
EASILY DIGGABLE or concrete reinforced?
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ATBOG
11:48 Mon Jan 9
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Have you considered a honour killing?
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Fifth Column
11:49 Mon Jan 9
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ATBOG wrote...
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Have you considered a honour killing?
Yes it's crossed my mind as a possibility but on reflection I don't think she's strong enough to kill me so I reckon I'm safe on that score.
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